Virtue 9: Humility

Young men, in the same way, be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God
opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. —1 Peter 5:5-6
As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient,
bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. —Ephesians 4:1-3
For by the grace was given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. —Romans 12:3
In God’s eyes, humility is defined as simply putting ourselves completely under His mighty hand: “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up” (James 4:10). Biblical humility can also be defined by pride, which is the perfect opposite of humility:
God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6).
Though the Lord is on high, he looks upon the lowly, but the proud he knows from afar (Psalm 138:6).
For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted (Matthew 23:12).
We are humble when we are free from pride and arrogance. And when we are humble, we are ready and available to receive God’s favour and blessing. Pride, on the other hand, puts us on God’s “oppose” list, and He only will know us from “afar.” Being proud has a high price tag!
Sometimes we get caught up in seeking victory in every situation we encounter. We want to win in sports, in work, in life, and even in love. When we lose, disappointment comes. But what about winning and losing from God’s perspective? Does he always want us to walk away with “the big win”? Consider this short lesson from the book of Joshua:
Now when Joshua was near Jericho, he looked up and saw a man standing in front of him with a drawn sword in his hand. Joshua went up to him and asked, “Are you for us or for our enemies?” “Neither,” he replied, “but as commander of the army of the Lord I have now come.” Then Joshua fell facedown to the ground in reverence, and asked him, “What message does my Lord have for his servant?” (5:13-14).
Here Joshua marches off to win another battle when an agent of the Lord greets him and explains that Joshua’s victory is not God’s priority. God’s ultimate plan and victory may not be what we expect.
” There may be many reasons why God does not want us to have the victory in certain situations. Keeping in mind that God always has our own good in mind (Romans 8:28), there may be several reasons why we do not win every battle. Consider these three possible reasons:
1. He wants us to learn humility and be moved to a teachable place in our lives;
2. He wants us to learn practical skills and lessons so we can win the next time we engage in a similar battle; or
3. We were not supposed to win because our reasons for doing so were either based on self-will or such a victory was not part of His ultimate plan for our lives.
Know when to retreat, as most problems and challenges that occur in a knight’s life can be dealt with over time. Know when to go back and be restored.
Christ gives us the best example of true humility. Consider these two key passages of Scripture that define Christlike humility:
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility
consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death—even death on a cross! (Philippians 2:2-8).
When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked
them. “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him.
Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them (John 13:12-17).
Notice the two extremes in the Philippians passage above: “Be completely humble and gentle” and “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.” When friends and family are near and words are flying fast, these are difficult words to live by! Perhaps the key to living a humble life is to make humility an action in our lives rather than just an attitude. We should be patient, bear with one another, and consider others as better than ourselves.
  • Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. —James 3:13
  • A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offence. —Proverbs 19:11
  • Blessed is the man who makes the Lord his trust, who does not look to the proud, to those who turn aside to false gods. —Psalm 40:4
If a Knight is consumed with pride and seeks by that means to uphold the Order of Knighthood, he is, in fact, corrupting it, for his Order was founded on justice and humility with a view to protecting the humble against the proud.
Think about these questions.
1. Why does God oppose the proud?
2. How does being weak make us strong in God’s sight?
3. Why does God give grace to the humble?
4. Why is humility a sign of true strength?
5. Is humility really lack self-esteem?

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